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Matching Wedding Bands - His and Her Wedding Bands | Jared

To match or not to match, there is no standard for couples matching their rings; it is truly up to you. While matching wedding bands are a symbol of you and your new spouse becoming one unit, not matching your bands lets you express your individuality and avoid one of you feeling pressured to choose a band he or she doesn't absolutely love. Explore the benefits and considerations for matching band styles, and how to unify rings even if they aren't identical designs.

About Matching Wedding Bands

Matching wedding bands symbolize your unity, partnership, and shared journey as a couple. Choosing coordinating designs can be a sweet way to show your commitment to each other. But, going completely coordinated can have its advantages and things worth considering. Before choosing a matching wedding band set think about:

Matching Wedding Bands

Things to Consider

If you're considering buying matching wedding bands, there are a few important factors to keep in mind to ensure both you and your partner are happy with your rings. Here's what to consider:

Metal

Choose a metal that both you and your partner love, whether it's classic yellow gold, elegant platinum, or modern white gold.

Design

Design Your band style should resonate with both of you, whether it's a simple and timeless band or a more detailed design.

Finish

Consider the finish of the bands, whether you both prefer a polished or matte look.

Diamonds or Gemstones

Decide if you want to include diamonds or gemstones in both bands, and if so, choose stones that hold significance for both of you.

Engravings

Personalize the bands with meaningful engravings, such as initials, a special date, or even a shortened version of your vows.

When a 100% Matching Set isn't the Answer

When a 100% Matching Set isn't the Answer Coordinating your wedding bands doesn't always mean they must be an exact match. In this section, we'll explore creative ways to unite the style of your rings, even if you go for different designs.

Different Styles but the Same Metal

Choosing the same metal shades can make your wedding rings look like a matching pair, even when each ring features a different style or finish. There are a variety of styles you can choose from in traditional metals like white gold, yellow gold, and platinum. Alternative metals, like tungsten, stainless steel and titanium are becoming just as popular as traditional metals because of their uniqueness and durability for men’s styles. Think about:

Do you want a total match?

Think about whether you want metals completely identical, or if you’re okay with a mixed metal color scheme for the engagement ring and wedding band.

Mixed complementary metals:

If your engagement ring uses a traditional metal, but you want to go alternative with the wedding band try styles that inlay titanium or tungsten in parts of the band for a more subtle look.

Go alternative, look traditional:

Go alternative, look traditional: For a picture-perfect match, alternative metal rings can still be plated to pair with more traditional hues.

Different Metal but the Same Style

Although matching wedding band with the same metal is very traditional, it’s by no means a rule. You and your partner may choose different metals for durability or because of your personal taste. There's no rule saying that if an engagement ring is a certain style, the wedding bands have to be, too. How do you get rings with different metals to “go with” each other? Think about:

Size and scale:

When your engagement and wedding rings don’t color coordinate, styling makes a difference. Stackable rings are a great way to incorporate your personal style and balance the difference in metals with rings styled to pair and stack together.

Keep it classic:

Keep it classic: Sticking to classic silhouettes helps different metal wedding and engagement ring still look cohesive together. Try solitaire styles and minimalistic bands for a super sleek mixed metal look.

Embrace the contrast:

If matchy-matchy styles aren’t your thing, then lean into your ring’s unique styles. Choose a wedding band that stands on its own. It might contrast with the engagement ring instead of merging, to create something new and different.

Matching Diamonds and Gemstones

Matching Diamonds and Gemstones When it comes to wedding bands gemstones are often a crucial part of the design, though the most popular choice is diamonds. And, yes, even for men in alternative metal rings, too! Traditionally, the term "anniversary band" refers to a band with diamonds. When it comes to the “gem factor” think about:

Different shades of diamonds:

While white diamonds are the most popular, you can also opt for colorful diamonds, like pink, blue, or yellow diamonds, for more character.

Get colorful with gemstones:

Diamonds aren’t your only option. Sapphire, amethyst, and other gems are popular for wedding styles, or you can choose special birthstones to add meaning to both of your rings.

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