Getting engaged is a big milestone for a lot of couples and part of that is picking out a ring. It’s not uncommon to find that the picture in your mind of the “perfect” engagement ring isn’t lining up with the options you have available to you. That’s why many couples opt to design their own ring. Whether you’re designing the ring as a surprise or you’re working together to create a beautiful symbol of your relationship, here is what you need to know about creating your own engagement ring.
Why Customize an Engagement Ring
From social media announcements to family get-togethers, part of getting engaged inevitably involves showing off the ring and you want to feel like it really represents who you are as a couple. Not to mention, she’ll have the ring for years to come, so making sure it fits her style and aesthetic will ensure she’s always excited to wear it.
Before you decide to design your own custom engagement ring, ask yourself the following questions:
- Is it important to you to have a unique ring that no one else has?
- Do you have a very particular vision of your ideal ring?
- Do you want the ring to reflect your bond as a couple?
- Do you want to be part of the design process and be able to make changes along the way?
- Do you want the ring to be a surprise or would you like to design it together?
- What is your budget?
Custom Engagement Ring Design Process

Step 1: Research & Plan
Designing a custom engagement ring should start with an idea of what you want. Do you like vintage-inspired details or are you drawn to more of a clean, modern look? Take some time to do your research and save some photos of rings that incorporate trends you love. If you can, a rough sketch of what you have in mind can help communicate your vision.

Step 2: Wax Model
The jewelry designer will create an exact wax model replica for you to examine and approve. Now is your chance to provide your input and make any changes.

Step 3: Cast & Set
Once you’ve given the go-ahead, Jared’s Master Craftsmen will cast your ring in the metal of your choice and set it with the diamonds or gemstones you picked out.

Step 4: Finished Product
After the ring is polished and finished by hand, it’s ready for you to pick up. On average, it takes about three weeks from approving the model to finished product.
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